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A TIME TO CELEBRATE – PICTURE WALK

May 5, 2023 By Cathy Habermann 22 Comments

I was never one of those girls that thought much about what my wedding would be like…the dress, the ceremony. Maybe I just didn’t have enough experience with weddings… maybe by the time Bill & I got married, we had lived separately (he was finishing grad school in FL & I was working in Northern VA) for too long & we were both just ready to get on with our lives together.

 

We got married in the late 80’s – a time period of poufy sleeves, ruffles, lace – all the bells & whistles. When I couldn’t find something that hadn’t been overly bedazzled, we went to a dressmaker took a pattern of my choosing & added just enough ‘extras’ to satisfy but not go overboard.

Here’s my dress – not in too bad a shape for being 35+ years old.

Headache bands were the popular choice for veils at the time. See where my finger is in the picture below – that point left a dent in my forehead for several days 😉

This is what my dress was stored in…a laundry bag that was made for me by a dear family friend when I graduated from high school. I used that all through college – it made the perfect wedding gown storage!

The Alencon Lace was what I loved most about my wedding dress. A heavy, custom sewn lace – I’m sure this piece was made by machine but originally this type of lace was hand couched with a buttonhole type of stitch. It spoke to my love of needlework.

 

Fast forward a bit as Bill & I raised 2 boys. Not that I thought anyone would ever wear my dress, I did feel strongly that someday, as Mother of the Groom, I would be able to have some small part in the ceremony with a gift of an item made from the lace of my wedding dress.

When Chris & Taylor became engaged, I knew my time had come!! They came bearing a really large box on one of their visits (no laundry bag for this dress!!)

 

We unsealed Taylor’s Mom’s wedding dress – the dress was in fact inside…I’ve read about stories where the wrong dress gets into the box (or maybe I watch too much TV). I laid the dress hems side by side. While there were obvious differences in the colors & style, I liked the way the lace edge meshed together…I could make this work.

 

WARNING: I am cutting into these 2 dresses. 😉 Go no further if that is something you don’t want to see (& please don’t send me emails saying that I killed the wedding dresses. There’s memories in the making here folks!)

 

I quickly got to work with some cotton sateens & gauzy mesh fabrics in several blends of cream & ivory to help blend the 2 dress shades.

Here’s where you can see my plan start to take shape. Nest the scalloped edges at the center – kind of a metaphor for the two families blending.

I chose a pretty ivory satin ribbon & secured it to the center.

Here I’m constructing the back of the pillow – including a special pocket.

Pretty typical pillow construction at this point.

Trim, turn, stuff, slip stitch closed…

With a nice little pocket so the MOB & MOG can slip a little note inside for the happy couple.

So there you have it, simple but full of memories & good wishes. I’m not calling this a ring bearer’s pillow since they are not having a ring bearer, but it could certainly be used as one. For me, it shows our families being joined together & tied with a ribbon of love (cue music & grab the kleenex).

As I was constructing the pillow, I was reminded of another celebration piece that I designed years ago for JCS magazine. I grabbed it out of the ‘vault’ & made it available for sale here on the website as a PDF. It has charting for several special Anniversaries (20, 25, 30, 40, 50 & 60). I love the simple but sophisticated color palette. Stitch one today for your favorite couple (an aida version is included as well).

 

Thanks for taking a picture walk with me – I am looking forward to my walk down the aisle very soon, on the arm of my handsome son!

Enjoy the stitch,

Cathy

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Comments

  1. Cindy k says

    May 6, 2023 at 10:34 am

    We had my daughter’s dress cut up and made into a first holy COMMUNION dress. It us better to REPURPOSE than let it waste away. You created a treasured item. Have a joyous weekend!

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  2. Cyndi says

    May 6, 2023 at 10:50 am

    Cathy. I think it is WONDERFUL that you took the plunge and cut up what will never be worn again to make a priceless gift for your Son and Daughter in Love in their SPECIAL day. CONGRATULATIONS to them.

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  3. Barbara says

    May 6, 2023 at 10:59 am

    Today my niece is getting married. My sister in law made her daughter, jenna, a dressing kimono from her wedding dress and her mother’s (Jenna’s grandmother) wedding dress. What a keepsake!!!

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  4. Jackie Burroughs says

    May 6, 2023 at 11:03 am

    How special and wonderful!!!

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  5. Leslie says

    May 6, 2023 at 11:32 am

    what a clever idea! Just beautiful and such a lovely memento of their special day.

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  6. Shelly says

    May 6, 2023 at 12:17 pm

    Oh my goodness! My eyes are watering! What a special use of wedding dresses that are otherwise just sitting in storage!

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  7. Anna-Frances says

    May 6, 2023 at 12:24 pm

    What a beautiful idea to have the two moms write notes to insert. A number if years ago i used lace edged handkerchiefs that belonged the two grandmothers of my niece to make the ring bearer’s pillow. And it was quite beautiful.

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  8. Diane Haun says

    May 6, 2023 at 1:09 pm

    What a lovely Memory for the new couple! I love it! If you are thinking of other ways to use those 2 wedding dresses, there is an orgaNIZATION, called angel gown program that will turn old wedding dresses into gowns for nicu babies that died. just an idea if you have leftovers!

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  9. Martha says

    May 6, 2023 at 3:44 pm

    So lovely and heart-warming! I did reach for a Kleenex. 🙂
    Best wishes to the groom and bride.

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  10. Sue Gress says

    May 6, 2023 at 4:48 pm

    This is amazing! I wi I would have done that for my sons. I am going to make 3 for my Grandchild for someday.

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    • Susan Gustafson says

      May 7, 2023 at 3:33 pm

      Just beaut! There a gr in my area that TAKES wedding Dresses and MAKES them into gowns for stillborn babies.

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  11. Jonnie L Staggs says

    May 6, 2023 at 6:47 pm

    Oh Cathy, I applaud you for doing what is/was on your heart. My daughter gave me her dress to do with as I please. Her children asked for a christmas tree skirt, a stocking, a teddy bear and 2 ornaments. If there is anything LEFTOVER, I will make a pillow for my daughter

    I did use some of her netting to embellish a quilt I am working on.

    Enjoythe wedding!

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  12. Kanchana says

    May 6, 2023 at 10:22 pm

    Fabulous idea!

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  13. Susan Wasiuta says

    May 6, 2023 at 11:29 pm

    This brought tears to my eyes! I love everything about this and know this will always be a treasured Keepsake.

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  14. Missy reynolds says

    May 7, 2023 at 8:54 am

    What a wonderful, extra special gift! I wish i had done something like this for my son and DIL. I removed some of the Alecon lace from my gown to add to my daughter’s veil at least.
    Would you consider designing a 10th and 15th anniversary celebration? Both my kids married late. Not sure if ill make it to their 20th. Id love to make them such a beautiful keepsake.

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  15. Kris Jellum says

    May 7, 2023 at 9:22 am

    I am in love with this idea! You are so clever. I wish i had thought of this for the grandsons who are already married. But i have 15 more grandchildren so there are still opportunities 😉 I wore my mother’s wedding dress from the 1940’s and has some beautiful old lace and satin.

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  16. Christine greene says

    May 7, 2023 at 4:25 pm

    Lovely gift for your son and BRIDE-to-be!

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  17. Lorna says

    May 7, 2023 at 6:24 pm

    Ok, ya made me cry 😿. What a WONDERFUL way to honor andnjoin 2 families. Save the rest of the dress for a baptismal gown,someday.

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  18. Linda Bleil says

    May 8, 2023 at 8:56 am

    What a beautiful story and how clever you are to make such a lovely momento of their special day. No wonder you are a great designer, your mind can see the details that go together to make a special finish every time.

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  19. Lorraine Crance says

    May 9, 2023 at 6:30 pm

    I will be saying a prayer for all the Wedding party and Families. Such a beautiful addition to her Wedding dress. She is so lucky to have you! Can you imagine naking babies halloween costumes? 🥰 i am so excited for all of you. Blessings and Joy. Lorraine

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  20. Hanna Mansfield says

    May 11, 2023 at 2:03 pm

    Congratulations to the happy couple and of course all the families involved. Health and Happiness <3

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  21. Jennifer in Indy says

    May 30, 2023 at 5:31 pm

    Wow, cathy, what an amazing gift for them, i love the way you used the lace from both dresses! Congrats on adding a daughter to your family.

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